Tuesday, December 29, 2009
34.5 Week Carter Checkup
My appointment today was with Dr. T (no relation to Mr. T.....haha). I oddly enough have met with him a lot this pregnancy despite my not being a huge fan of him last pregnancy. I thought this appointment was with Dr. C, but that is next week. (Both Dr. T and Dr. C delivered Logan)
So he asked if I had any questions and checked the heartbeat. All was well. He asked if I'd made a decision on the method of delivery and if I'd signed the consent form either way (stating that I knew of the risks of attempting a vbac or if I knew that I at least had the option and everything was explained and still wanted to do a c-section). As I had not yet done this, he had the nurse give me the form, which I read while sitting there and signed it stating that as of this moment, while I understand there is a 1% chance of my uterine lining rupturing and it can lead to bad things, that I would still like to try a vbac. This is simply to sign it in case I go into labor early, they have it on record so they don't get sued if something were to happen; however, it is important to note that by signing this, nothing is set in stone and I still have every right to change my mind.
In the meantime, I asked Dr. T what he thought. I told him that I met with Dr. S 2 weeks prior and he was clearly wanting me to have another c-section. He said, yeah, that's him. So, it did make me feel better knowing that the pressure I had received from that doctor was not the way they 'all' felt. Right before he checked Carter's heartbeat, he did poke my stomach twice and said that he does 'feel big'. Oh goodie! He too mentioned a growth ultrasound in a couple weeks, but also mentioned that they were not that accurate - they recently estimated a baby to be around 9 pounds...and he came out 7 (pretty big difference). And one of my friends, sister's babies was predicted to be in the low 7's...and he was 10. Ugh, so I am really starting to wonder if this growth ultrasound is even worth it! That is where my conversation with Dr. C next week will help. Dr. T and Dr. S (and the other bunch of docs I met with) give me the information, but there is something about Dr. C that I trust more-so. She has more of a conversation with me and I never feel that she is cutting me short. Man, I hope she doesn't let me down next week! :)
In the meantime, I have had several braxton hicks contractions in the last couple weeks. Nothing regular, but exciting to have nonetheless.
I am still torn about a c-section versus vbac. Honestly, signing that form, while I know it is not set in stone, was still kind of nerve-wracking. What if I do go through attempting a vbac anyway and still end up an emergency c-section? I guess this time it will be different as they will not induce labor, so essentially if I do decide to wait it out...if I come to a date (let's say past 40 weeks) and he 'needs' to come out...I will have a scheduled c-section anyway. But then, I wonder...will I be frustrated with myself if I end up with a c-section anyway to not have done it sooner? Granted, anytime that I wait, is time with just Logan and I....however, I must admit that I am getting more and more uncomfortable. My stomach feels so heavy (which also makes me wonder about his size); nights are harder to 'toss and turn'....some nights I feel like going into Logan's room where the recliner is...and I really don't know what I'd do without my pillow wedge! Carter also moves around a lot...tonight at dinner Logan was whining while I was making dinner and Carter was beating me from the inside. :)
So I guess I will still stick with my thought of 2 weeks ago, that I will schedule a c-section at the end of January (just after 39 weeks) and if it has the chance to happen before, I will give it a try. It is just the unknown that is killing me and weighing on my mind. I am starting to think that by having a scheduled deadline, that will make me feel better. We'll see next week when I schedule. If possible, I'd like to have Dr. C deliver Carter.
In related news, our Christmas decorations are put away and the baby clothes are down from the attic. I usually like to keep my Christmas stuff up through the first week in January...and snowman stuff up through February, but considering that we have a beautiful baby to prepare for, I just needed to end the festive decor and get my house back in order. We are putting more things into our storage unit and then soon we will look at new bedroom furniture for Logan.
Time is flying by!!!
Friday, December 25, 2009
Christmas Eve
Anyway, we relaxed in the morning and then got ready for the 3pm service. As the children walked in the door, they were handed a bag. Its contents were; a cloth, a rope or string and a glowstick. At the beginning of the service the children's director told the congregation that the children were all going to be shepards, so each child put the cloth on their head and tied the rope around their heads...it was very cute! Logan, naturally wouldn't even let me get as far to tie the rope. Oh well. The director then showed the children specific hand motions they'd have to do each time a certain prayer was mentioned throughout the service. I helped Logan with it each time; again, very cute. It came time for the children's talk part of the service and for the first time, I took Logan up to the front. He did very well; he even let me put the shepard's hat on for a few minutes (I then adjusted it and he realized that it was on his head and took it off). He listened to the pastor talk; he tried getting up to walk and I wouldn't let him get very far...he got a little bummed about this and plopped himself on the ground and then bonked his head on the chair I was sitting on (if I were to sit on the floor it may have taken forever to get up, with being 34 weeks pregnant and all...). I thought there was going to be tears, but thankfully, he didn't cry. Later during the service they dimmed the lights, we cracked our glowsticks and sang Silent Night. It was a very nice service. Logan received a couple compliments after the service about how well-behaved and adorable he was! :)
We came home from church, Logan napped and we made an Angel Food Cake, which we later lit 4 candles to represent the 4 members of our family (John, Logan, Buddy and I) and sang Happy Birthday to Jesus, as he truly is the reason for the season. We opened up a couple of presents and skype'd with John's family. We set out cookies and milk for Santa and we put Logan to bed. Unfortunately, we thought we had carrots for the reindeer, but apparently we ran out...ah well, next year.
Sometime during the night, Santa came and left Logan a gift and filled his stocking...and ate the cookies and drank the milk!
Wednesday, December 16, 2009
32 Week Carter Checkup
The doctor (I typically see a different one each time as I have to meet with each of the 8 docs) said so this is your 10-pounder (patting Logan on the head). Yep! Then he proceeded to say 'Are you SURE you don't want to schedule a c-section'??? Out of all the doctors he seems to be the pushiest about it...the others have asked me if I've made a decision and every time I say the same thing....I would like a growth ultrasound to determine how big he will be. So seeing as how this doctor was a little opinionated I thought I would pick him brain with 20 questions to see what he'd say as I do want to hear all opinions. Here is what I learned:
- if I schedule a c-section the pain and discomfort will apparently be less than if I have to have another emergency c-section. I guess it is because my body will not have gone through so much rigamarol.
- if I have a VBAC (vaginal birth after c-section) the recovery time is less than that of a c-section (regardless if it is schedule or emergency)
- if I have a VBAC I will not have to stay in the hospital as long
- if I schedule a c-section the experience will be much different than that of an emergency section as the doctors will not be as concerned about the baby losing fluid or being in distress...there will be no rushing down the hallway...no rushing to get the baby out - it will be a calmer experience and I will have Carter in my hands at a guaranteed time.
- if I schedule a c-section I can do it as early as one week prior to my due date, which puts Carter arriving Jan. 28
- I asked if I can schedule an induction and he said 'no' (I thought maybe if I could induce him to come out early, he'd weigh less than going to 40 weeks or beyond). They do not do inductions on previous scars. He said if I went naturally on my own, that is one thing, but the medical professionals will not make that happen.
- one of my concerns with having another c-section is that going forward that is pretty much all I'll be able to do. He said with having 1 section, the risk of the inner scar rupturing is 1% (that one percent has very high risks associated with it). That percentage will increase will each following section, however there are not enough studies to show how high the percentage is as there are not many women that do a VBAC after 2 or more c-sections.
- I asked how many c-sections a person can have (as John and I want more than a couple of children if we can). He said that 3 is normal, 4 is definitely doable, he has done 5, but it is a bit more rare. I told him of a gal I'd recently met that is having her 6th c-section and he thought that was way too much. He then voiced his opinion about large families and I was able to clearly tell that he thought 6 kids was way too much anyway. John and I don't know how big we want our family to be, but we are both in agreement that we would like more than 2 if possible.
- I asked when a growth ultrasound could be performed. He said between 36-38 weeks, as close to the due date as possible. He said that they are not 100% though. They can give us percentages as to how big they 'think' he will be...but he has had circumstances where they thought the baby would be 7 pounds and it was 9 pounds...or thought they would have a 9.5 pounder and it was 8.5 pounds. So apparently they can try to estimate as best as they can, but it is not exact so we need to take it with a grain of salt. In all honesty, as Logan measured in my belly perfectly up until the very end, it is so hard to tell how fast he grew...was it gradual or did he shoot up in the last couple of weeks?
I think that pretty much sums up our conversation. In the end we kind of decided that at my next appointment I will most likely schedule my c-section, if anything as a 'just in case'. Apparently as it gets closer, time in the O.R. can be harder to schedule. So for now my thinking is that I will schedule the c-section and see what happens. If I go into labor beforehand, then I can give VBAC a try. If I do not go into labor on my own, perhaps there is a bigger reason and c-sections are meant to be for me. I will continue to mull this over as I really do want to try a VBAC, but if I am 'afraid' that Carter is huge or his head too is crooked in the canal, then I don't want my mind to play games with me while trying to push. I know that other people have delivered big babies so I know it is not impossible...it is just that I did really give it my all with Logan and it just didn't happen for me.
My next appointment is the Tuesday after Christmas and is with the doctor that was with me the entire time of my delivery with Logan. She is very sweet and I look forward to hearing her opinion as I don't think she will be as pushy, but informative (not that this doctor was not informative, I just wonder if anything he said was a bit biased towards section).
If you have thoughts about it, please leave a comment...I enjoy reading them and weighing my options with others thoughts in mind. John is very much for a c-section, but is at least saying he is understanding that it is my body and he will support me with whatever I decide.
Saturday, December 12, 2009
Carter's 3D/4D Ultrasound
The ultrasound went great. With an exception of literally the last 30 seconds, Carter had his hands in his mouth the ENTIRE time! The technician jiggled my belly for all she was worth to try and move his hands, but he just thought they were sooo yummy! She did get several great pictures and we have a 10 minute DVD as well of everything she was doing. His heartrate was 158 bpm, which is pretty high...normally it is around 140 (must've been the mountain dew I had before I went to the appointment so he'd be active...although to be honest, he's pretty active without caffeine too!).
He is still very much a boy! I will not post the picture, but boy oh boy there is NO mistaking him for a girl...way to go Carter!
Carter appears to also have big cheeks like Logan...and hair already like Logan. You can see for yourself, but all of us in attendance think that Carter looks like Logan, which is a very good thing as Logan is such a cutie pie!
In this picture it looks like he is laughing and giving a thumbs up!
Here his mouth is open...getting ready to eat his hands again...
It kind of looks like he's giving us the finger here...although, I don't think it is 'thee' finger. :)
Here is a picture of his cute little (big) foot! (I have no idea what the other stuff is surrounding the foot, but it is kind of gross looking...sorry)
Thursday, December 3, 2009
Experiment
We were in the music/movie/book section getting some gifts and I let him loose. He was up the aisle, then down the aisle. I was near the end of the aisle while he was at the end display and all of a sudden I saw a calendar whip across the aisle. Yeah...he thought it was so funny! So I picked it up and he decided to take another calendar and walk around with it...then he was done with it when he saw that he could try to climb the dvd racks. No, no, no.... So we walked to a different aisle where there was another fascinating end rack that he started plucking the plastic holder-thingy off. No, no, no. So we walked to a different aisle (naturally, I couldn't 'easily' find the items I was looking for...I realized that Target doesn't have that big of a section as I had hoped). So as we walked past one final aisle of shiny, gleaming gift cards that just called his name...I swooped him up and threw him in a cart.
I thought that he would be upset with me for making him sit instead of being free to roam and explore this truly wonderful store, but to my surprise he was fine (again, what a great child!). We zoomed around the store in an annoying cart that bumped every spin of the wheels, but oddly enough he thought this was super fun (and we have been to 2 other stores since then and he starts bumping along since apparently now all carts do this... :) ).
So it was a fun experiment that ended shortly after it started...but it was fun to watch him explore.
Tuesday, December 1, 2009
Carter and a Funny...
I now start going every 2 weeks, so my next appointment is the 15th. How exciting to be on a 2 week schedule already!!! With the holidays coming up, they scheduled all my appointments until mid-January! The nurse mentioned that doing Non-Stress tests is not in my plan, so that is good to know. Otherwise I would have to get a babysitter for Logan since that appointment lasts over a half hour.
Now the funny... Logan and I were waiting for the doctor. Logan was in his umbrella stroller with his sippy cup. He took a drink of water and started babbling, without swallowing. He had never done this before and it threw him off as he basically just spit water out. Oh man, I nearly lost it. I tried to remain straight-faced to tell him that we don't spit, but I just bust out laughing - and so did he! Naturally he did it a couple more times and just had such a hearty laugh. I think he just loved that he got me to laugh hard too - I had tears in my eyes; he was being just adorable. I then did stop the fun and got a paper towel to wipe the puddle on his shirt. We moved on...I thought he just may put up a stink about me taking his sippy cup away, but he didn't. Oh, gosh, it was just so funny!
We then left to go do some Christmas shopping and he did so well. I am so blessed that he is so well behaved in stores (for now....I am aware that someday, possibly soon he may change....or who knows, Carter may be a pickle).
Monday, November 23, 2009
Logan's One Year Wellness Checkup
33 inches (99th percentile)
head: 18.5 cm (64th percentile)
The nurse took all his measurements and pricked his finger to check his iron level. He did absolutely fine for it...and then she put the band-aid on. He did not like it on his finger. He did not whine or anything, but was trying to shake it off his hand (like he does when I put mittens on his hands). Then he tried to slobber it off. During the doctor's exam, I noticed 2 light stains on my shirt...and then the doctor and I realized that the band-aid was gone. Uh oh. We looked around the room and then thought perhaps he swallowed it. I felt bad because if he was chewing on it, I would think that I would have noticed. The doctor mentioned that it will 'turn up' soon enough (meaning when he goes to the bathroom). Minutes later, I saw it on the floor. We didn't see it before because after he slobbered on it, the color of the band-aid blended right into their dark hardwood floors. Phew! :)
Between the nurse and doctor visit (which was literally seconds) I heard the doctor ask something and the nurse answer back, no he's a good boy. I think he was wondering if Logan didn't like being poked and prodded or something.
Friday, November 20, 2009
Where did it go?
Today Logan and I were at a park with Kathy and Maddie. Maddie wanted to go check out the geese, so we all walked over. Kathy ran over and jumped and it made all the geese fly away - which fascinated both kids. I was holding Logan at the time as there was quite a bit of goose poop in the grass and didn't want him falling in it. I then look over at him and he's holding his hands out to his side, palms facing up and saying 'oh'. It was so cute - his expression was saying 'Where did they go'? He kept doing it...it made us laugh!
Later we went out to dinner with John's brother, Dave and Paula. I was playing peek-a-boo with a small toy. He'd give me the toy, I'd hide it one of my two hands and he'd have to pick. During picking he'd stop and put his hands out with palms up and say 'oh' 'oh' 'oohhh'. It was just too cute!
One nap
Still if we take a car ride earlier in the morning or later in the afternoon, he will snooze for the 5-20 minutes, but he appears to not be any worse for the wear if he doesn't take those mini-snoozes.
Thursday, November 19, 2009
Slide & a Carousel Ride
Naturally, I decided to take a video. Now, I normally would catch him at the bottom, but he had been doing a great job of landing on his feet and my arms would just help him balance a bit. So of course when I take the video, he was soooo excited and was going fast (although keep in mind it is a VERY short slide ride) that he landed on his feet and kept going and face planted right onto the carpet. I felt bad...but it still made me laugh. He did not cry, but his face was a little red from rubbing into the carpet. I watched the video tonight and oh man, it made me laugh...but again, I felt bad that I didn't catch him to fall.
One time when he was on the slide, the carousel just outside the play area was going (small carousel - 3 seats - a dog, boat and train). He was fascinated with this new thing. He slid down the slide, I steadied him and he walked over to the bench and stood on it. He just stared and giggled at the carousel. He then proceeded to try to climb the bench (which as of right now he cannot do) to get to it. Kathy and I knew that before we left we'd let Logan and Maddie ride on the carousel as Maddie was fascinated with it as well.
Logan sat in the boat for the first ride and played with the steering wheel...and when the ride started, he was just amazed - it was too cute. Again, of course I took video and pictures....although he has the same face of 'oh'. He liked it and we let them ride again. It was too cute.
Big day for the little guy. :)
More (Sign)
Congrats on another sign, Logan!
Monday, November 16, 2009
Updates
Logan's 1st Haircut
Thursday, November 5, 2009
Logan turns ONE!!!!
Wednesday, November 4, 2009
Logan's First Fever
Sunday night Logan felt warm and his fever was around 99.6. We gave him some tylenol and sent him to bed. Monday he awoke with a fever of 100.6. We have a temporal artery thermometer, but we quickly found out just how inconsistent it can be if done on a different part of the forehead. So we went back to the digital thermometer under the armpit. I have heard that this temp may not be super accurate, but it can get you a really good guess-timate (in the meantime, this is how his doctor's office takes the temp, so it must be accurate enough as long as it is held in the center of the armpit and his arm is held down). Anywho, that is the method we continued with for the next couple days. We gave him more tylenol and checked it after lunch (tylenol lasts 4 hours). His fever was now 101.1.....more tylenol....which would help during the 4 hour window. I gave him a warm bath to cool him down as well. He didn't last in there too long as it was not its normal 'hot' temperature. His fever was 102.2 before bed. Poor little guy. By this point I had learned that alternating tylenol and motrin works better. Motrin is better at reducing the fever, but can be more harsh on his stomach, so it should not be given solely. Okay. So John picked up both meds on his way home. We gave him motrin before bed and checked him 2.5 hours later when we went to bed - his fever was down to the 98's - great.
Tuesday was more of a repeat of Monday. Besides having a fever and having glassy eyes, his only other symptom was that he would click his throat (as if he was trying to itch it...interesting how this reflex just comes naturally). He was drinking wonderfully; eating - eh, not so stellar, but he would eat; played just fine; and took really long naps - 3 hours! So I knew he wasn't feeling well, but he didn't show any other symptoms of feeling terrible, so we didn't call the doctor. I said if he woke up on Wednesday with a fever we'd call as we are going out of town soon and I needed to make sure he was healthy.
Wednesday....101.1. Okay, I called the doctor and got an appointment for 11:20 with our favorite doctor, Dr. L. I gave him some motrin and put him down for a nap and when I was ready to go, I woke him up. He was sooooo sweaty. Of course, this means that he is breaking the fever on his own. Oh well, I still wanted to take him to the doctor just to be sure there isn't some other infection. (by the by...since he was so sweaty, his hair was soooo curly....love it!)
Since I had given him motrin, his 'fever' for the doctor was non-existent...97.0 to be exact. They weighed him (22 pounds 14 ounces) and checked him out. Breathing good. Eyes good. Nose good. Ears good. Throat - aha! Sore throat. He had some blistery looking things so he tested him for strep which was negative. He said normally it is negative, but we just wanted to rule that out as if it was strep he would need an antibiotic. He said to just keep doing what we're doing.
I actually learned something. Dr. L said that since he was completely fine other than 'having' the fever, to not give him tylenol or motrin. Apparently all his body knows to fight off an infection is to have this fever. By giving him medicine to reduce his fever his body can't fight it off as fast - it just masks the symptoms. The only reason to give him medicine for 'just' a fever is if the fever is making him cranky and not feel well. Logan was never really cranky with his fever so we could've gotten away with not giving him meds and who knows, he may have broke his fever sooner than later. It was a pretty fascinating lesson for me. I don't want to give Logan medicine if I don't have to...and the doctor and nurse said that they are trying to educate people more on this as we have been 'taught' from the past that as soon as you are sick to take medicine. The truth is, a lot of it has to run its course....fluids and rest really are the best ways to get rid of viruses. Now if it is not a virus and something like strep, then an antibiotic may be necessary. So I wanted to sahre this with whomever reads it. Hopefully I made sense.
As of tonight, the last time we gave Logan medicine was at 8:30 AM...and he is fever free and no more glassy eyes. Yay. For his actual 1st birthday tomorrow, he will be healthy!
Tuesday, November 3, 2009
Carter's Follow Up Ultrasound

Logan meets Nana and Aunt Philly
Then on Sunday the whole family got together for dinner. It was a bit more hectic as there were a lot more people, so we were again really thankful that we got some 'alone' time with them on Friday. We hope to make a trip out to PA next year to visit with them....and introduce them to Carter. :) Here are some pictures:

Nana and Logan

Wednesday, October 28, 2009
Carter...he's a wiggler!
Friday, October 23, 2009
Halloween Pics
I took him to get his professional pictures done and while he wasn't dishing out glorious smiles like usual, we still got 2 great photos. :)
Just before we arrived to the studio, I swung by Target and bought a few bunches of bananas as a prop (which I now have a lot of banana bread to make!). You'll see in the second picture he posed with all the bananas in his full costume. In the first picture the photographer (whom I have started requesting since she always seems to have a cute idea) suggested peeling open the banana and seeing if he'll take a bite. Great idea! I peeled the banana and gave it to Logan to hold...he just looked at it....so I put it in his mouth - he took the bite and she took the cutest picture...then he threw the banana down (so it was a good thing she got the shot!). We also tried a picture of him standing, but he kind of had a blank expression on his face....although he looked SO BIG standing by himself. Here are the pictures (I took a picture of the pictures on my dining room table, so that is why there is a brown border):

Quarantine
Starting last Monday, my family has been sick. Logan started Monday with a few sneezes, which on Tuesday turned into a crazy head cold. Then on Tuesday I coughed a few times and by the evening my throat was hoarse from coughing and I just felt 'blah'. By Wednesday...yep, it was a chest cold. Thankfully I have the runny nose and sneezing...but oy, did I cough. Everyday around 3pm it would get worse and worse and by evening I would sound terrible!
So Logan and I stayed indoors...which is just not what we do - we are very much usually out and about. Every so often Logan would grab my finger and bring me to the front door or garage door and hit the door as if to say, 'come on, let's go somewhere'. He would be sad when I'd tell him no. But I didn't want to spread our germs, nor did I want our already 'down' immune systems to pick up anything else.
Sunday we were finally feeling good enough to go out and we met up with my parents and Grandma at a restaurant so they could give Logan his Halloween costume (my Mom made it). Sunday I also found my 'approved medicine' list that I can take while pregnant and I realized that I can take Robitussin...yay! So I enjoyed a drive out to get some. By Tuesday Logan was doing so much better and I was pretty well contained so we went to the library to play. Tuesday, John started with the cold...ahhh!!! He came home early from work so he wasn't spreading germs and he worked from home Wednesday for the same reason. So finally, today, Logan is completely done, John is pretty much done and I for the most part am done....at night I still have a bit of a tickle in my throat, but nothing like it was this weekend.
Schools in the area are closing due to illnesses, including our church's school. The Swine Flu, regular flu and colds are overtaking the nation, so it seems. So we are washing our hands constantly and trying not to go to many germy places. Here's to hoping we stay healthy!!
Thursday, October 22, 2009
Pre Birthday Celebrations
Logan opening his gift:
Friday, October 16, 2009
Wednesday, October 7, 2009
More Steps
So again, tonight he was in the mood...so we took advantage. We try to hold a toy (in our mouths as it is eye level for him and he keeps his balance more) and lure him to us...tonight it was his small caterpillar/rattle/teether. We started out by making him take 4 steps...he did great. Then Buddy laid down in the middle of our path...so he got sent outside, which he enjoyed and we enjoyed the distraction being gone for a bit. :) Soon after Logan was at 10 steps (his max to date). The cool thing was is that 90% of the time his steps were soooo steady - and he would even stop inbetween to stand and then keep on walking. One time he even was babbling something to me while walking - what a multi-tasker!
Logan was walking in his socks, but on the alphabet foam mat in our family room as it is slippery on the hardwood floor (his socks didn't have any grippers on them). So in order to maximize his walking, we took our symmetrical mat apart and made it like a long runway...slowly he did 13 steps....then 17.....then finally 19 steps!!!!!! All steady! If I would've had more room to scoot back, he could've kept going.
So now that he can walk pretty far once coaxed, we just have to get him to leave furniture and come to us (he did do this to John tonight and once or twice before....but not a lot). He also will stand in you leave him and while he's walking, but if he's leaning on a couch or something, he is not as apt to let go and just stand. I read in my baby book that I took my first steps before I stood, which at the time I thought was odd...but now I see that it can be done.
Anyway, way to go Logan! I did catch a video of him doing 10 steps - I will try to post it later. :)





















